In my relationship (but maybe not yours), the best medicine in the world for intra-marital conflict is for me to be by myself, preferably with some sleep time in there somewhere. In fact, I’ve uniformly rejected every piece of relationship advice that I’ve ever been given — thank GOODNESS, because relationship advice is fucking dumb. In all the relationships I’ve witnessed from the sidelines of my longterm union, this is the one rule that has never gone away, never wavered, never been disproven.
Human beings are invariably different, each and every one of ’em, and driven by thousands of experiences, beliefs and behaviors.
Generalized advice just doesn’t pan out most of the time.
To get good at something, you need to love the process The people who get good at signing songs are those enjoy singing scales and doing warmup exercises.
The people who get really good at basketball are those who enjoy doing dribbling and layup drills.
match is the most widely-used online dating site in the world and has nearly 1.8 million subscribers.
It works in the most traditional way: Simply create a profile, check out your potential matches, send them a few messages and then arrange to meet for a date.
Sadly, we can’t time travel, but what we can do is learn from others, which is a hell of a lot faster than trying to figure things out for ourselves.
Here are 40 little knowledge bombs that, in my opinion, took me way too long to learn.
It’s aimed at time-starved professionals, who due to busy work and social lives simply don’t have the time to date.