Touch yourself and describe what you're doing; ask him or her to direct you; direct him or her.
You can pretend you're together making love, or you can pretend you're strangers.
Today I can ask for exactly what I want sexually, and learn my partner's preferences, via direct questioning and fantasy talk - as well as through non-verbal ways of communicating. Arrange a time you can feel comfortable exploring telephone play.
I know that communicating this way will maintain - even heighten - our level of arousal. Queen suggests (among other things) becoming more comfortable with erotic talk by talking to yourself while masturbating. If your partner has requested phone sex or dirty talk, great - but you might still want to talk about it before you start dialing, if only to reassure yourself that the timing is right and that your lover's response will be positive.
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It's true that hot talk is a powerful turn-on for many people, and that's an excellent reason to use it. Queen recommends hot telephone calls with your lover as a good place to start out with him or her: Another useful trick when beginning to talk with a partner is to do it live, but over the phone.
But more importantly, erotic talk lets you communicate about sex without sounding clinical or detached. You will have a cloak of privacy that respects your shyness yet doesn't shore it up.
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